Engaged

Marriage is a big step, and we’re here to help you start strong. If you’re engaged, Marriage Matters is the perfect place to grow together, prepare for life as husband and wife, and build your relationship on a Christ-centered foundation. You’ll find honest conversations, helpful tools, and a supportive community that wants to cheer you on. Whether your wedding is months away or just around the corner—we’re so glad you’re here!

Healthy marriages start long before the wedding.

Prepare for a strong and passionate marriage through community by addressing common challenges from a Biblical perspective.

THURSDAYS 6:30-8:30 PM // JANUARY 22 - MARCH 19, 2026

Couples who participate in pre-marital counseling experience an increase in marital fulfillment over those who do not. Merge prepares seriously dating and engaged couples for marriage by addressing common challenges from a biblical perspective. Topics covered include a communication, conflict, finances, expectations, family and in-laws, sexual intimacy, and understanding your spouse. Merge helps couples explore what marriage really means in a safe and informative environment. Often for the first time, couples get to see the practicalities of merging together two very different lives. Two sets of expectations, now merging together. Two bank accounts, now merging together. Two pairs of inlaws, now merging together. The name Merge came about because that is what marriage is: the joining together of what was previously separate.
The 9 week class is offered once a year. The cost is $60 per couple and this covers the cost of materials for both of you.  
Classes include:
  • Large group teaching time
  • Small group discussion with a trained leader couple
  • Personalized learning opportunities
Whether you go to Forum, attend another church, or don't go to church at all, you are welcome to attend. If you have some weeks that you will be unable to attend, don’t let that keep you from joining in. You will be able to easily catch up with a recorded video of the class and continue on with your homework and notes of the class. We always encourage if one of you can attend, do so, and catch the other one up. Also, if you are not local, it can still work through the wonders of video conference technology!
Don’t hesitate to sign up, just do it! Merge registration closes on Sunday, January 18.
What are you waiting for? Find some laughter and fun with your partner at one of our intentional date nights. All of our events are for engaged and married couples, no matter the age, stage or health of your marriage or if you call Forum your church home, somewhere else, or nowhere at all. We welcome you to be a part of a community of couples who desire to deepen their relationship with their partner and Jesus.

Events

Connect daily. Date weekly.

Sunday Class - You & Me Forever

Marriage is a gift - but it is not the goal.

Join us for an 8-week study through You and Me Forever by Francis and Lisa Chan, a thought-provoking look at marriage in light of eternity.

Whether you're newly married, raising kids, or enjoying the empty-nest season, this study invites you to shift your focus from temporary concerns to eternal purpose. We’ll explore what it means to pursue God first and most — and how that transforms the way we love, serve, and grow with our spouse.

Expect honest conversations, biblical truth, laughter, encouragement, and a renewed vision for your marriage that goes beyond “happily ever after”. All engaged & married couples are welcome. This class is led by Steve & Marilyn Roberts. 

10:00 AM IN ROOM 202

Whether you are facing financial challenges that you want to overcome, want to learn new skills or sharpen the ones you already have, we'd love to walk with you in this journey. Couples will commit to an initial session and one follow-up session with additional meetings and communications as needed. 

Financial Coaching